To Propose As to Err

When we propose something as to work at it, we must acquired all the possibilities of mistakes should be highlighted right in the beginning. This is to ensure we know what to tackle in order to achieve an objectives of any sort.

Imagine we are asked to do something let say a big project has been put into our agenda, we must ensure that we properly layout the foundation as to support and to meet what has been appointed to.

Often we see others are unlikely to support what other people has to propose and offer. Why is this so? Now, this is sometimes people would see that something new always and as always some people would think that this would threaten their comfort zones and this will be seen as a burden.

We should never think of that way. Never think it is a burden when someone else propose. Let mistakes happens. But we can always do something. Make something and do anything about it as to support whatever the ideas and proposal.

It is like when you started to build a house, you need to apply electricity, water, telephone right before the beginning of construction, NOT after the complete building a house. Thus, ensure there is a foundation in all aspect to support the outcomes. Just like building a system, we need all other essential parts first before finally we placed all the jigsaw together.

Support.Support.Support.

This is where most and some of us are always lacking at. Yes human being always prefer to be unsupportive at something new. Human being are always good at not providing encouragement and help.

Now, why not we turn the table around and makes things better? :)

Dr R

Language of Stories

Everyday we hear a different stories from people from different backgrounds.But some stories are true to the facts and some stories are offers you something of no good and bad for you and your future endeavour. But it is a matter of understanding what we have to hear and listen what other people have to say.

Be free to listen to any stories and account. Sometimes there are some key things that we need to remember or to point out what is relevant to you and to others in our surrounding. Once or twice there are stories of such contempt and stories to put people into their misery. Now, this kind of stories and narrative is should not be accountable to what you want to do and to achieved.

It does not hurt to listen and to ask questions, why such stories and accountability to such circumstances and stories that came up with it. As long as you hear out and do what you are told to do correctly and precisely whatever you do, wherever your ground is, you can get what you always wanted based from stories.

Stories are also a glimpse of back to the past of such people to tell their stories and part in their life. What they did wrong and what the did not do. It is up to us to take the correct path and to notice which is good and which is bad for us. Learn from those stories to move up the ladder and you might get jumped to the next ladder to the next building in your career or personal progression.

The choice is simple. Choose your stories wisely.

Dr R

When Something Bad Happens...

When something bad happens.......
Never condemned what people did to you or hurt you....

When something bad happens.......
Never look at it as the end of everything.......

When something bad happens.......
Never misjudged other people with their behaviour.........

When something bad happens.......
Never let your anger control yourself....

When something bad happens.......
Look back into what we did wrong......

When something bad happens.......
Change what we need to change in order to succeed.....

When something bad happens.......
It does not mean that you cannot do it anymore......

When something bad happens.......
Never fear of what we want and should do.....

When something bad happens.......
Face whatever the consequences with an open mind and heart....

When something bad happens.......
Learn what can be learn from every situation....

When something bad happens.......
Think before you react......

When something bad happens.......
Be patience and place more patience into your heart...

When something bad happens.......
Always pray and make the efforts not to do it again....

Dr R

Heart of Richness

Richness in heart here means to give and to fulfill what means that we are trying and doing what we do. Richness in here does not mean to have a great deal of money or assets, richness in your heart that really counts.

This is where you being sincere to other people, being honest what you are doing and never being so selfish about oneself. Give out and help out for those who needed and for those are will to sacrifice for the benefit of others.

Never ever let fear contempt and control everything that we intended to do. Everyday there is gap of contraction being where one would say that one does not have a heart to do so and so. It does not have to be that way.

You heart is the center of your own emotions and thoughts, it is where our feeling, courage and enthusiasm comes in and bring about what we have become. Have a heart in doing something and be keen and committed in doing whatever it may be.

Alas, A good heart is what really count how truly rich you really are.

Be Superficial Calm

Superficial means something that exist or occurring either in the surface or in deep complete immersive means. But we are looking into a different context here whereby to be in superficially calm about everything that we do.

But these calmbess can always be shattered by external factors that can affect our state of mind. Take for example where one feel so much stressed out about particular tasks to do everyday. Do not panic and always take your time to do things that we want to do or to achieve. Never ever show how crazy or insufficiently you are unable to manage the tasks at hand when you feel un-calm.

Sometimes you have to fake your calmness, contained our nervousness,anger or any other emotions which lead to break your calm. Try to confront what our problems and challenge with an open mind with the absence of agitation.

We usually speaks of calm when we want to,but actually it takes practice and lots of practice to be calm at one hand. Calm also needs to be associated with patience. That is why we need to be calm and content in doing what we are asked to do or that we want to accomplished.

Be calm even if you have to fake it. Be Superficially Calm.

Dr R

Avoid Unclear Assumptions.

We all make assumptions whether that assumption is true or not. But care need to be taken when making certain assumptions as some assumptions which may lead to untruth and fake acceptance without any proof.

It is not a best practice when we always assume evertyhing. When always assume at everything then this will lead to uncertainty whereby people get the wrong ideas or it can become the start of a rumour and fake ideas.

When one make assumptions be clear to analyze it first, when we go the truth out of it with supporting evidence we can go ahead change that assumption to the facts. Never give out assumptions without any supporting arguments and evidence, eventhough you know that it evidence is on the trail or still on the way, if we can see it with our own eyes and support by others then we can make a good assumption.

This is why we need to clear any fake and untruth assumptions, because these things can clouds our judgement from the truth. When unsure of such outcomes or circumstances be clear and be ready to analyze it first. Place our assumption in the mind not by spreading through the mouth.

Clear the air, analyze it first to the facts.

Dr R

Embedded Opportunities

At some points in our life we are given a lot of opportunities to move on to the next position or jobs at hand. Sometimes we are being offered with a great prospect of what we become and able to do in the future of our agenda.

But sometime it is best and wise to step back a bit to have a reality check. To check here means that you must really sure that if the next up or side positions are really "fit" for you. To do this picture yourself in that position or a new job that you had been given and offered. If you can see yourself in that area doing that work and you like it, then it probably best to take that risk and go for it.

However, when one cannot see that such particular opportunities that you do not wish to take upon then it is better to keep it in view or just leave it. Sometimes there are more suitable candidate that wish to take that position and would appreciate more what is being offered. This would eliminate all those future whining and unsatisfying work or task that we did not agree upon at the first place.

Yes, we do all agree that sometimes without our agreement people would jump to give us the position without our consent and without our decision whether we would like to take it or not. That is particularly the case whereby things would go out of hand and this thing happen anywhere we are in.

Remember, you and other that offered has to agreed based on a mutual understanding and agreement. But you must be happy to work for it. If you are not willing to do, then it is alright do not worry too much about it, there is always other opportunities awaits. It is not the end.

Be thankful for what we have now and what we are capable to do. You never know what good things that can came up next.

It is better sometimes to give other people a chance as well, as long as we are not jeopardizing what we do and what we love to do everything will turn out to be well.

Dr R